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According to statistics only 30 percent of women can get an orgasm from sexual contact alone. Hence, other women are trying to find another way for getting an orgasm. Do not forget that using sex toys is a wonderful and great thing and it will spice up your sexual life, but it can also leave your partner unsatisfied and confused. But our advices will help you to make everything right and beautiful.

Approaching the subject

It is always scary to start suggesting new ideas like using sex toys if you both have never tried them. When somebody hears about sex toy, he/she imagines big silicone dildos and of course man would not want to have a rival in the bedroom. It is very good that there are a lot of other sex toys which will not scare away the beginners.

Communication is Essential

First of all, you have to be sincere all the time and you do not have to be afraid to tell about your desires and needs. Communication is essential in the relationship and this belongs to the bedroom as well. If you want to start talking about sex toys, imagine yourself that you tell about music or candles. He has to know that he pleases you and that you just want to experiment a little bit and to see where it can lead both of you. Without any doubt, he will curious about that too and he would want to try to please you this way. You have to choose the toy together because both of you have to be involved in the sex game. But if your boyfriend does not want to use sex toys, you can buy one for yourself and make solo play. Who knows, maybe with some time your partner would want to try it too.

Comfort is Important

If you want to start using sex toys, you can play a little bit with your partner at first. For instance, if you want using bondage, you can hold his hands above his head during prelude. This will show you his reaction on this in case you want to use pink fluffy handcuffs. If he is not against it, you can put handcuffs on him and continue your play. Do not put him into an uncomfortable situation. Learn out his reaction first and only after this use a sex toy. So, if you want him to touch you somewhere, just out his hand or fingers there. You have to show him that sex toy is for giving you more pleasure and not for confusing him. He will love this toy when he sees what pleasure it brings you.

Experiment

Intimacy as well as communication and honesty are very important in the relationship. Only you know what is good for your relationship and what is not. But if you want strong and healthy relationship with you partner, you have to be sincere with each other. It is your decision whether you want sex toys in your sexual life or not, but without experiment you will not know this for sure.