6 Common Marriage Problems To Avoid
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Marriage is a union of two loving hearts, but not always this love lasts forever and
marriage can end with divorce. Often couples come to the conclusion that they do
not want to be married when there are quarrels because of dirty dishes or
incapacity of having baby.
But you
have to remember that there are no ideal relationships without fights and
quarrels and everyone experiences that. So, you have to be strong and avoid the
following mistakes for living happily in the marriage:
1. Lack of
Sex
Every
married couple deals with irregular sexual life. These problems appear when there
are children, chores, work, depression and so on. But if you want to avoid this
problem and have passionate nights after wedding, you have to help your wife
with everything. You can wash the dishes, make chores, send children to a camp
or grandparents, thus your wife will not be so tired and you will have nights of love. Everyone knows that sex is the best treatment from stress and
depression.
2. She
stopped looking after herself
A lot of
women do not look after themselves after wedding. Either they think that it is
not necessary after marriage because their husbands love them no matter what or
they are too fat after giving birth to the children and they do not care about
it. But if you do not like it, you have to do something, otherwise your
marriage will become a torture for you. You can go to the dances together or
swimming, you can also jogging together every morning before work. Remember,
that time is running and you also do not look like in your 20s.
3. Dividing household
responsibilities
Once upon a
time men and women had different responsibilities about the house. It is a
history now. Presently, men can cook and wash the dishes. And do not quarrel
with your spouse if is she asks you to do the chores. You have to help her. You
can make a schedule who and what has to do.
4.
Infertility
The most
horrible thing that can happen to two loving hearts is the inability to become
parents. Infertility can destroy your marriage. But you have to realize that no
one of us is guilty in it. And the worst thing is that you can not solve this
problem like lack of sex or loosing weight. You have to discuss with your wife
about the possible ways of having children.
5. House problems
House
problems can also become an obstacle in having happy matrimony. Many couples
rent an apartment, but this does not bring them feeling of home. And incapacity
of buying a house lead to quarrels.
First and foremost, houses are expensive.
Besides the mortgage you have to think about property taxes and maintenance costs. So, you have to be certain
that you can buy a house and maintain it. You do not have to get into debts and
take credits for purchasing a house because it could lead marriage to the
divorce if you have problems with money. So, you have to sit down and to talk
about pro and contra.
6. Boredom
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