6 Common Marriage Problems To Avoid

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Marriage is a union of two loving hearts, but not always this love lasts forever and marriage can end with divorce. Often couples come to the conclusion that they do not want to be married when there are quarrels because of dirty dishes or incapacity of having baby.

But you have to remember that there are no ideal relationships without fights and quarrels and everyone experiences that. So, you have to be strong and avoid the following mistakes for living happily in the marriage:

1. Lack of Sex
Every married couple deals with irregular sexual life. These problems appear when there are children, chores, work, depression and so on. But if you want to avoid this problem and have passionate nights after wedding, you have to help your wife with everything. You can wash the dishes, make chores, send children to a camp or grandparents, thus your wife will not be so tired and you will have nights of love. Everyone knows that sex is the best treatment from stress and depression.

2. She stopped looking after herself
A lot of women do not look after themselves after wedding. Either they think that it is not necessary after marriage because their husbands love them no matter what or they are too fat after giving birth to the children and they do not care about it. But if you do not like it, you have to do something, otherwise your marriage will become a torture for you. You can go to the dances together or swimming, you can also jogging together every morning before work. Remember, that time is running and you also do not look like in your 20s.

3. Dividing household responsibilities
Once upon a time men and women had different responsibilities about the house. It is a history now. Presently, men can cook and wash the dishes. And do not quarrel with your spouse if is she asks you to do the chores. You have to help her. You can make a schedule who and what has to do.

4. Infertility
The most horrible thing that can happen to two loving hearts is the inability to become parents. Infertility can destroy your marriage. But you have to realize that no one of us is guilty in it. And the worst thing is that you can not solve this problem like lack of sex or loosing weight. You have to discuss with your wife about the possible ways of having children.

5.  House problems
House problems can also become an obstacle in having happy matrimony. Many couples rent an apartment, but this does not bring them feeling of home. And incapacity of buying a house lead to quarrels.

First and foremost, houses are expensive. Besides the mortgage you have to think about property taxes and maintenance costs. So, you have to be certain that you can buy a house and maintain it. You do not have to get into debts and take credits for purchasing a house because it could lead marriage to the divorce if you have problems with money. So, you have to sit down and to talk about pro and contra.

6. Boredom

Even if you love your second half, you may be frightened by the thought that you will spend every single moment of your life with this person. And you may get bored of him/her. And the marriage will come to the logic end. But you can overcome boredom easily. All you have to do is to bring new things into your life, such as traveling, hobbies, activities and experience new things in sex, of course. So, nothing is as difficult as it may seems, right?  

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